Ch. 17 A Brother's Advice Given
ALERT: What do you guys think, should I tell him about the girls nude swimming, or just bury the secret? I need to know, because I thinking maybe it might help him to deal with what's happening between us and how he's covering his ass at home.
Response by Blog Brother Cat from Texas:
WHAT GOOD WILL IT DO IF YOU OUT HIS WIFE!!!
Something are better left unsaid. If anyone's going to out his wife let his wife out herself. DO NOT BE the Nelly Queen the house is spread gossip just because she knows something. And in the long run you may end up jeopardizing your situation. Not knowing how he would react he may backfire. He may resent the fact that you were the one who tells him. And Heaven Knows that's the last thing you want. Especially the way it's been progressing on the positive side.
Now If the situation arises and he asks you, "Why didn't you tell me?". My response would be, " I didn't feel it was my place to tell you". That is a situation best dealt between a wife and a husband. At least it would show him that you respect him not to get in between the relationship he does have with his wife. If he wants to elaborate or talk about it the it would open the door for you to continue down that path.
I will take the solid advice from my new Brother Cat! Thank you for helping me Cat. We will remain solid brothers now!
Response by Blog Brother Cat from Texas:
WHAT GOOD WILL IT DO IF YOU OUT HIS WIFE!!!
Something are better left unsaid. If anyone's going to out his wife let his wife out herself. DO NOT BE the Nelly Queen the house is spread gossip just because she knows something. And in the long run you may end up jeopardizing your situation. Not knowing how he would react he may backfire. He may resent the fact that you were the one who tells him. And Heaven Knows that's the last thing you want. Especially the way it's been progressing on the positive side.
Now If the situation arises and he asks you, "Why didn't you tell me?". My response would be, " I didn't feel it was my place to tell you". That is a situation best dealt between a wife and a husband. At least it would show him that you respect him not to get in between the relationship he does have with his wife. If he wants to elaborate or talk about it the it would open the door for you to continue down that path.
I will take the solid advice from my new Brother Cat! Thank you for helping me Cat. We will remain solid brothers now!
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That was solid advice from Cat.
ReplyDeleteYes it was incredibly solid advice. Cat is one of our followers from the start of the journal. He is a wise Sage, and has advised us often. Gotta love Cat!
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